FRIENDS! Who doesn’t have a friend? Best friend to be more precise! Is it necessary to have a human best friend? A best friend can be found in animals as well. Introverts or Extroverts, animals can be friends to anyone on this Earth even if they are mistreated by us! That’s a different issue altogether! Thee topic of this blog is specifically Human Friendships and the quarrels it faces that leads friends to turn into strangers.
Fights between friends usually occur because of misunderstandings, jealousy, competitive traits, and many other reasons. These reasons break friendships more often. People when angry or confused tend to take everything in wrong direction without giving it a thought. Friendship that break because of a worthy reason are surely to be kept aside for life and forgotten as bad dreams.. But the friendships that turns cold overtime and breaks in the end are the friendships that should be given a reason for.
These breaks can be prevented by only communicating. If there are things or habits of your friend that you don’t like, then, all you have to do is choose an appropriate time and make your friend sit with you. Talk to him\her about your issues because of him instead of keeping them with you and building a pile of frustrated thoughts and later bursting them out all together only to result in the huge fight where the other person is unknown to the reason. Talk to your friend in a polite way and try explaining why is it irritating you and what he\she got to change. And trust me your friend is definitely not that immature to not understand and change their habits.
So guys, get set and communicate. I know this word ” communicate” is common in my blogs but its literally the key to almost any issue you face. Whether friendship, relationship or business, if you don’t communicate, their ain’t gonna be a solution.
Try talking about your issues with the person who is causing them and see this trick working its magic.
Now people, see you in my next. Till then LOVE YOUR LIFE AND STAY CONNECTED!<3
“ Letting go of something is not giving up, it’s just a beginning of setting souls free.”
Let me tell you a story this time😉:
There was this baby bird who was supposed to learn flying. His siblings shed their wings and flew away; but, he stayed. Was he afraid or just didn’t want to leave his nest where he felt safe and secure? The answer is yes, he was indeed afraid. Taking a flight from a tall tree’s branch isn’t easy right? The other question of not wanting to leave the nest also has yes for an answer. Why? you ask? Because, that birdy was attached to that nest and didn’t wanted to let go of those memories he had had in that very nest where he had his mother to take care of him.. But the birdy wanted to fly too for which he had to let go of that nest he has been holding on to for his comfort. Birdy finally took his call, and flew away by letting go of his nest and his fear.
You must be wondering why suddenly a story?
It is because people around you and even you yourself have been holding on to things/people/past you have got so attached to that you are not able to accept the fact when it’s the time for those things or people to leave. Imagine that bird in the story as you and the nest as past/person/thought etc. If you don’t let go of that nest you won’t be able to fly like that little bird, that is, you won’t be able to achieve what you deserve because you will be stuck with whatever you are holding on to.. Sometimes the best thing you can do to grow, is to let go of the stuff that holds you back from achieving what you want to..
Learn to let go and see the magical peace you experience when you feel that you are freed from a cage that locked you for years!😍
Go get your dreams! They are waiting for you! Get out of your cage and explore the world outside! Face your fears and over come them! 😇😇
Lemme know how you liked this blog in the comments below and what you want me to discuss in my next!😊
Until then, love your life and work towards your goals. ❤
Ever felt like you are going nowhere, just doing the same thing over and over again with the same bored or ” f*ck it! I have to do this anyway” attitude? I feel ya! Because me too.. Heck! who hasn’t? There always comes a time in our life where we start wondering about where our lives are headed. Is our life, LIFE? What are we even doing? Why are we doing this?
The good thing about this phase? ( Yes guys.. even the worst phase of your life has something good to offer.. you just have to look for it.😉😁😇). You can really think and find out by yourselves what you EXACTLY want from your life because the day you start wondering the above questions is the day you start searching answers for them and a way to get out of this thought process you feel so stuck in! And grow internally and mentally while you do so.
Whether it’s your academic career, job you are doing, or life you are living; when you feel unhappy with it? You try new ways to make it better. And as the Quote says ” It’s never too late to start over if you are unhappy with the place you are in right now.” Who knows maybe YOU change your life for better and achieve something that you didn’t expect you could in your life.
All you gotta do is START CHANGING YOUR ATTITUDE TOWARDS THE THINGS YOU DO IN MORE OF A POSITIVE ONE! And see the world you brought to life for yourself. ( Ohkay Ohkay! I know I stole a lyric from ” love me like you do” but c’mon it did fit in perfectly to that part! PS: don’t judge 😂😅😁🙈).
Lemme know what you guys want me to write positively about. I’d love to get some suggestions.
See you guys in my next! Until then love your life, stay positive. ❤❤
How are y’all doing? Well, I hope you guys are doing wonderful!! 😃😁.
I actually have a question for you people. How many of you have failed and stood back up for doing the same thing again and finally succeeded? Feels good right? I can relate too ’cause I recently succeeded in something I was trying for past three years! 😇
I know how difficult life can get with us. But, giving up on the things and people without giving your best is taking you nowhere other than a place where you are gonna experience regrets for not trying to the best level possible.
Giving up seems to be a better option when you keep failing in your life and everyone around is telling to choose something else or something better or we can say something THEY want YOU to do in your life. But choosing to continue trying by fighting all the negative people around you is what you gotta do. You can’t simply give up on stuff you have been wanting for so long in your life and have worked so hard for.
Lemme add something here though. Please don’t keep doing those things which are getting you deeper in your depression rather than motivating and improving you.
Well, it’s like if you trying to pass your tests or interviews or something that is important to you? You surely should continue trying. BUT, if you a person eating too much of sweets with any damn reason ( say, ” hey! it’s my friend’s uncle’s dad’s birthday today! I can eat sweets for such an important day.” 😂 ) and suffering diabetes? You gotta give up those sweets, alright? ( SORRY😂 But you have to). I don’t want you to get in health trouble.
On a serious note, DON’T GIVE UP ON WHAT YOU BELIEVE YOU CAN DO! You will make it through whatever you are dealing with in your life.
Let me know in the comments below, how and what you got succeeded in after many trails and also what you regret not doing on time ( except your homework and projects. because I regret not doing mine on time when I was in school 😅😅 ). I would love to know your thoughts over this.
See you in my next! Until then, love your life and stay positive. ❤❤
Hii guyss!! How are y’all doing? I hope your week started off on a good terms and not “blood sucking monday😜 ” way. Also I hope your Tuesday is going good😉
Well, I wonder how many of you have heard the phrase “what you don’t know, won’t harm you” and how many of you find it true, but I won’t mind disagreeing with this phrase that’s been said and heard since years without really understanding the meaning of it.
For those who don’t know the meaning, this phrase means “if you are unaware of a particular problem or situation then it is not going to hurt you or harm you in any way”.
I completely disagree with this phrase. It is acceptable that people hide their problems from us if its their personal matter but when the people close to us are going through something and not telling us about it? Damn they hurt us like sh*t! And trust me when I say hurt I mean it. Imagine being lied to by your loved one and later getting to know the truth? Won’t it hurt? Thought so! It will definitely hurt. Who wants to get lied to by their own people right?
At last I just want to say that it is not right to hide your problems from people you love whether parents/lovers/friends/ any one that is important to you with a reason that you hid stuff from them so that they don’t get tensed or hurt. Because once they’re gonna know the truth, ultimately, they are gonna get hurt that you didn’t find them capable of sharing your problems with or you didn’t trust them enough to tell them what you were going through!
Share people share… If you don’t share your problems and keep fighting it alone you won’t be able to solve it any soon.. Try sharing and trusting your loved ones maybe they could get you out of your troubles. Afterall, they LOVE you!😉😉❤ Trust me they will be more than happy to help you without any judgments! 😇
So get sharing and don’t use this phrase as an excuse for lying.
Lemme know what are your thoughts over this topic. Always here to listen to you. 😊😊
Now i gotta leave.. Meet you soon with new phrase and new thought in my next!
Until then? Love your life and spread smiles!🤗🤗
And…. am out!🙋
Hello there everyone!👋🏻🙏
This is my FIRST blog post. Yay! Finally! 😍😉
My blogs would contain my every day’s thoughts that I have in my little confused and little sure brainy! Some are positive 😃 and some are negative 😐. But hey, we all have had both kinds of thoughts at some or the other point, right? So this is me with my brain’s wise words 😅 that I would love to share with all you lovely peeps here! Oh and yeah! Please don’t judge me if I EVER post something tooooo stupid, ’cause most of the time my mind wanders around thinking stupid stuff like ” Who would have named the food items and on what basis that name was selected?🤔”. So that’s what I meant when I said stupid. 😂😂 Don’t you worry! I will try and post some sensible content. 😊
Now I will take your leave and meet you soon in my second post!
Till then? Keep loving your life no matter how hard it gets!❤